Truth Behind the Selfie

The last 7 years of my life have been spent dabbling in social media. Working in it, figuring it out, building relationships through it… I’ve been so deeply involved in it that I sometimes fail to see how prefabricated it all can be. From all the food styling photos I see at restaurant events, the amount of times it takes yogis to get that perfect shot — things are not always what they seem on the other side of that photo or share. How much of it’s true? How much of it’s real? And as more and more studies emerge on the topic that social media increases unhappiness, we know that as humans we tend to compare, for better or for worse, and that this is creating and setting unreal expectations for society.  With that in mind, I stumbled on this fun video that highlights the now-natural pre-fabrication of social media.…

Numbers – a short sci-fi film

I love short films! Since I’m on the internet at all hours of the day, I’ve obviously come across so many gems. Below is a great little sci-fi short on an interaction between Nick and Mia, two people who have more in common than what you perceive at first glance. Have you ever seen that music video for Nickleback’s song Savin’ Me? This movie has a similar concept. Totally worth your 10 minutes to watch, the attention to detail is second to none.

Everyday is NYs

A challenge of mine lately, has been goal setting. The creation, the execution, and the follow through on these things have been getting more and more challenging as I get older. Maybe it’s because I’m stretched too thin lately, or that I’m just not able to commit in the way that I’d like to, but I’ve become a bit disenfranchised with New Years and the concept of goal setting. This past year, I’ve spent a lot of time thinking it through. I’m certain that we place ourselves in a position for failure when we expect ourselves to follow through on an arbitrarily made goal. We do this just because the idea of renewal and being better at the top of the year has been sold to us, time and time again. I’ll happily make goals for myself, but I have to get out of the mindset that it must be done…

The gods wait to delight in you

your life is your life don’t let it be clubbed into dank submission. be on the watch. there are ways out. there is a light somewhere. it may not be much light but it beats the darkness. be on the watch. the gods will offer you chances. know them. take them. you can’t beat death but you can beat death in life, ailment sometimes. and the more often you learn to do it, cost the more light there will be. your life is your life. know it while you have it. you are marvelous the gods wait to delight in you. The Laughing Heart – Charles Bukowski

Romantic Comedies with a Feminist Twist

In a neverending quest to better understand myself and my beliefs, I’ve worked hard to view myself in relation to my gender. Through my life, I’ve experienced feelings of inadequacy, feelings that I have to work hard to prove myself whenever dealing with men. I’ve become a strong advocate of feminism, equality, and gender relations even going so far as working on gender equality projects in STEM and promotion of women in the restaurant industry. Often, I sit back and think of where these feelings of inadequacy come from, where they began and how they are promulgated within our society – and I can usually come up with a few ideas of where they stem from. One, of many, being that they are coming from a place of culture and socialization. It’s built into our society that women have to take a certain type of treatment and that we should…


“As for me, cure I am tormented with an everlasting itch for things remote. I love to sail forbidden seas, troche and land on barbarous coasts.” – Herman Melville Is it true that innately within each of us is a yearning to explore, to discover and to travel? Is there a need to visit far off places and remote worlds? Personally, this assumption holds fast and true for me, and I know that if the world had not been explored yet, I would readily jump on a vessel and go forth! I recently stumbled upon this short film that features satellite imagery from NASA with a cool voice over from Carl Sagan explaining the desire within us all to see what is beyond our atmosphere. The video creates a world where humans have figured out space travel, and now are exploring those far off planets and their moons. The film is…


Is the grass always greener on the other side? This short film contends with ideas of perspective, secrecy and control. Wonderfully written, it kept my attention until the last second and drew me in with a hope that the main characters would find the peace they were striving for. This feeling was very similar to what I felt while I was reading 1984 by Orwell, which if you haven’t read yet, is a must read, especially in these times where surveillance and political manipulation of citizens is at a head. Take a few minutes to check this short out, it’ll make you question the world you live in and what you’ve been taught.

Issues with Reintegration and Self-Perception Post-Travel

It’s always a struggle for me when I go away on an adventure. Anytime I travel, I know that it’s inevitable that I will return changed in someway; but truthfully, every person changes each minute of the day, every second, through every conversation and interaction, through every breath and blink. I can’t imagine not coming back different in some way. My perception and understanding of things shift, and my traumas and issues that I’m dealing with seem to not dull, but to lessen. Either way, Bali and the Unsettled experience proved to help shape me, and change certain parts of myself. Unfortunately it did open up a whole new set of questions and issues that I still have to delve deep into: where am I going? who do I want to be? where should I put my efforts, and where shouldn’t I? I’m still shifting back into regular life, but finding…